These are a few of the common questions I get that I thought would be easier to respond to here. Please feel free to ask whatever you might be pondering, I don’t have all the answers.

In this linked article, a really tough question is answered succinctly about the core reasons more people don’t tell their stories of abuse. It is a belief, pure and simple, about something that is neither pure or simple.

Here is an update and rewrite for the paragraph in my post about the Legal status of what I’m doing. This is the first I have received confirmation about what happened after the last contact.

If even spiritual leaders can’t find enlightenment about their behaviour what hope can we have for the Weinsteins and RJs of this world? In everything there is good and bad, in everyone and everything.

Many people have reached out to me about the legality of what I’m doing. When I started this and I saw fear in people’s eyes, I mistook that for dislike of my writing or the subject matter, but later realized it is fear that more shit will be brought down on my head.

When I called RJ, my oldest, dearest friend of 40 years and asked him not to contact me or my family anymore he didn’t have even one question.

So I write and write and then I cut and cut. In the end everything and nothing feel important. Let in even a little memory and the flood gates open; I feel more than I was prepared for, but it is getting better.

I am 100% responsible for everything that happened. I made choices all along the way. That is true without a doubt.

Up until I published this site I had a skewed view of how this would be, how it would be received, and how I would feel about it all. The response I have got even within the small circle who has seen it has been great.